Every Education Migration Has an End
Hello, I’m Saori. It’s been three and a half years since we moved to Penang, Malaysia.
My eldest daughter Hikari is 7, and my son Zen is 5. Both attend an international school every day. And my youngest daughter Yukari is 1.5 years old—still toddling around and not yet in school.
The term “education migration” might carry a sense of permanence. But I see it differently.
Education migration should have a clear “end.” When and under what conditions will you withdraw? Starting a migration without deciding that is like setting sail without a map.
Today, I’d like to share my thoughts on “how to end an education migration.”
Why Set a Withdrawal Line
When deciding to move abroad, most people only think about “succeeding.” But what truly matters is “what to do if it fails.”
Before our move, my husband and I discussed this many times. As a result, we set three withdrawal lines.
First: “Child’s adaptation.” If a child shows signs of mental or physical imbalance, we withdraw immediately. No matter how good the school, nothing outweighs a child’s happiness.
Second: “Financial sustainability.” If exchange rates fluctuate significantly and education costs strain our budget, we’ll reconsider. As of the latest exchange rate, 1 MYR = 39.57 JPY (as of May 5, 2026). The yen has weakened since we moved, but it’s still within an acceptable range.
Third: “Achievement of educational goals.” If the targeted English proficiency or academic skills aren’t attained within the set timeframe, we’ll consider changing course.
The “Completion Conditions” I See in Penang
The “end” of education migration doesn’t necessarily mean returning to Japan.
In my view, the completion condition is: “The child gains the ability to choose their next environment independently.”
At the international school Hikari attends, English is the norm for classes. Conversations with friends are almost entirely in English. If she transferred to a Japanese elementary school now, she’d struggle at first.
But I think that’s okay. What she’s gained isn’t just English skills.
Growing up in a multicultural environment has given her the ability to embrace different values. She’s also built experience expressing her opinions in English.
These are things that are hard to acquire through Japanese education alone. With this foundation, she’ll be able to choose her own path for middle school, high school, and university. That’s what I consider “completing the migration.”
Withdrawal Is Not “Failure”
The word “withdrawal” might carry negative connotations.
But I see it differently. Withdrawal is a “smart choice”—a strategy for making the next move.
For example, even if Malaysia doesn’t work out, the English skills and international perspective gained there are never wasted. They become a foundation for choosing the next destination, like Singapore or Australia.
There’s also the idea of a phased migration. Build a foundation in Penang, level up in KL, and aim for a Western university. Along the way, changing environments is a possibility.
What’s important is not clinging to “we’ve come this far.” You need the courage to make flexible decisions based on your child’s growth and family circumstances.
How to “End” as a Family Strategy
Education migration isn’t just about one generation of a child. It should be considered as a strategy for the entire family line.
Overseas Chinese families choose cities and countries for education. Jewish families don’t hesitate to migrate for education.
I also want to build a foundation for when my children become adults—and for when their children receive education.
To do that, we need to end this migration as a “success.” My definition of success is: “The child becomes independent and gains the ability to pass it on to the next generation.”
That’s why we set withdrawal lines now. That’s the “how to end an education migration” as a family strategy.
What to Think About Now
If you’re considering an education migration, please take a moment to think about this:
“When and under what conditions will it end?”
Raising the success rate of a migration isn’t just about optimistic planning. It’s about concretely preparing for worst-case scenarios.
In our family, we review our withdrawal lines every three years. Conditions change as our children grow.
For now, both Hikari and Zen are enjoying their school life. Yukari will soon turn two. I’m already looking forward to seeing what kind of school life she’ll have.
But we’re always prepared to choose an “end” if needed. I believe that’s the best way to protect our family.
Education migration isn’t a marathon without a finish line. We set our own goal, run toward it, and have the courage to change course if necessary.
That’s my take on “how to end an education migration.”
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